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June 24
Hi Deanie, so sorry I've not been by. I appreciate you stopping by my space. So you're a GGranny too. Blessings Always to you and your family, Ann
June 23

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June 28

Talking about YouTube - President Obama - Your Turn: Join the National Online Discussion on Heal...

 

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June 01

A Poem to ponder, a keeper in all Homes!!

What the heck, it could be a crabby old man as well.

                                        

Below it states that this poem should be in all nursing homes.
Wrong.It should be in all homes on the refrigerator door for all to see.
 
 

This poem should be in every nursing home! 
  
Very 
Special Poem 
 
When an old lady died in the geriatric ward of a small hospital near Dundee, 
Scotland , it was believed that she had nothing left of any 
value. Later, when the nurses were going through her meager 
possessions, they found this poem. It’s quality and content so impressed 
the staff that copies were made and distributed to every nurse in the 
hospital. One nurse took her copy to Ireland . The old lady's 
sole bequest to posterity has since appeared in the Christmas edition of 
the News Magazine of the North Ireland Association for Mental 
Health. A slide presentation has also been made based on her simple, but 
eloquent, poem. And this little old Scottish lady, with nothing left to 
give to the world, is now the author of this 'anonymous' poem winging 
across the Internet: 
 
 
Crabby Old Woman 
 
 
What do you see, nurses................What do you see? 
What are you thinking......When you're looking at me? 
A crabby old woman..........................Not very wise, 
Uncertain of habit,.....................With faraway eyes? 
 
Who dribbles her food ............... And makes no reply. 
When you say in a loud voice.......'I do wish you'd try!' 
Who seems not to notice .........The things that you do, 
And forever is losing ....................A stocking or shoe? 
 
Who, resisting or not, ............. Lets you do as you will, 
With bathing and feeding, ............. The long day to fill? 
Is that what you're thinking?........ Is that what you see? 
Then open your eyes, nurse,....You're not looking at me. 
 
I'll tell you who I am .. .....................As I sit here so still, 
As I do at your bidding, .................. As I eat at your will. 
I'm a small child of ten.............With a father and mother, 
Brothers and sisters......................Who love one another. 
 
A young girl of sixteen ...................With wings on her feet 
Dreaming that soon now ................... .. A lover she'll meet. 
A bride soon at twenty, ................... My heart gives a leap, 
Remembering the vows ............... That I promised to keep. 
 
At twenty-five now,.................... I have young of my own, 
Who need me to guide ............... And a secure happy home. 
A woman of thirty,................... My young now grown fast, 
Bound to each other..................... With ties that should last. 
 
At forty, my young sons..............Have grown and are gone, 
But my man's beside me.....................To see I don't mourn 
At fifty once more,..................Babies play ‘round my knee, 
Again we know children,.................. My loved one and me. 
 
Dark days are upon me,......................My husband is dead, 
I look at the future,............................I shudder with dread. 
For my young are all rearing .................Young of their own, 
And I think of the years.......... And the love that I've known. 
 
I'm now an old woman......................... And natu re is cruel; 
Tis jest to make old age ............................. Look like a fool. 
The body, it crumbles,.................... Grace and vigour depart, 
There is now a stone.................... Where I once had a heart. 
 
But inside this old carcass............... A young girl still dwells, 
And now and again,.................... My battered heart swells. 
I remember the joys,........................ I remember the pain, 
And I'm loving and living.............................. Life over again. 
 
I think of the years..................... All too few, gone too fast, 
And accept the stark fact......................That nothing can last. 
So open your eyes, people,.......................... ..Open and see, 
Not a crabby old woman;.........Look closer......see,....ME!! 
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Remember this poem when you next meet an older person who you might brush aside without looking at the young soul within....  
we will all, one day, be there, too! 
 
PLEASE SHARE THIS POEM.  IT WILL OPEN HEARTS 


May 29

A question we will all ask ourselves at sometime in our life---

I am so sorry, but this was not written by me as the author's name is below. I just wanted to share as I too thought was Beautifully written to share, and to keep in mind the words written. We are never really prepared, but reading these words has a lot to help along the way. Sorry I gave the wrong impression that I had a lose, Syd is still with me and I hope for a long time to come. But I have had loses of family and best friend's, but a child or spouse is the hardest to go through and  this seemed to me share not only for me but you my friends too.

When Will I Stop Hurting?
 
 
"I lost a loved one nearly a year ago.
When will I stop hurting?"
 
The question was simple
but difficult to answer.
She was challenging me.
I wanted to help her,
but I knew that only she
could answer that question.
 
Whenever someone writes
to tell me about a death,
I always talk about the difficult months ahead.
I refer to it as a "Year of Firsts."
The first holiday, birthday, anniversary,
summer picnic or other personal events
without that loved one.
 
Then there are those little things
you never really paid attention to before,
but now find a gaping hole right
in the middle of your day.
Like the time they woke up each morning,
how they had their coffee,
the sound the door made around dinner time
when they arrived home
and the way they said "hello."
 
But there was something about this message
today that made me stop and really
think about what I needed to say.
Oddly, I decided that the pain she was feeling
was a good thing, but I wasn't sure she wanted to know that.
 
Here is exactly what I wrote to her:
 
When will you stop hurting?
That is a measure of the love you shared and
how does one measure love?
By remembering them long after they are gone.
"Memories" are the shadows of a life well lived
that remain long after the light of their being has gone out.
 
May you never forget.
"Pain" is the echo of remembering
those special moments when all the world
belonged to the both of you.
The day will come when the pain of
remembering turns into understanding
the privilege of ever having them in your life at all.
 
Remembering will be a joy.
Although the pain is great at times
you are reminded still,
how very much you loved and were loved.
 
May the rest of your life be a reflection
of that love and when your time comes,
may your passing cast long shadows
for all who loved you, too.
Bob Perks
Just had to share as I needed to read this, as written so beautifully with Love.

May 19

So relieved for Syd!

Great news, the cat scan they did recently on Syd, found that no cancer was spread from his prostrate cancer as his numbers went up as he hadn't had a hormone shot in a Yr. as he was undergoing chemo and radiation on his esophagus, which ended in Nov. Now resumed his shots and be every 6 months. Just before Easter had 2 units of blood. So far he is doing great and keeping busy. Thanks for your on going prayers. Today having my eyes examined and get new frames, there's two I like, not sure which one I like, hummm! Is to warm up today, been cold!

May 12

Talking about YouTube - Tapping your cell phone

 

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April 18

Join in on the Karaoke party and have Fun!


I, Deanie has invited you to Karaokeparty.com

Karaokeparty is a free online karaoke game that gives you a score based on your performance. All you need is a microphone, built in or connected to your computer.

Just go to http://www.karaokeparty.com/ and join the party!

Regards,
The KaraokeParty.com team

Come Join in the party and have fun either ALONE or WITH FRIEND'S. I did alone. no one had to hear how well or bad I did, lol. They even score you.
April 16

Absolutely Brilliant - a feel good humor for thr rest of your Life

 

 

 
George Carlin on age.
(Absolutely Brilliant)

IF YOU DON'T READ THIS TO THE VERY END, YOU HAVE LOST A DAY IN YOUR LIFE. AND WHEN YOU HAVE FINISHED, DO AS I AM DOING AND SEND IT ON.

George Carlin's Views on Aging

Do you realize that the only time in our lives when we like to get old is when we're kids? If you're less than 10 years old, you're so excited about aging that you think in fractions.

'How old are you?' 'I'm four and a half!' You're never thirty-six and a half. You're four and a half, going on five! That's the key

You get into your teens, now they can't hold you back. You jump to the next number, or even a few ahead.

'How old are you?' 'I'm gonna be 16!' You could be 13, but hey, you're gonna be 16! And then the greatest day of your life .. You become 21. Even the words sound like a ceremony . YOU BECOME 21. YESSSS!!!

But then you turn 30. Oooohh, what happened there? Makes you sound like bad milk! He TURNED; we had to throw him out. There's no fun now, you're Just a sour-dumpling. What's wrong? What's changed?

You BECOME 21, you TURN 30, then you're PUSHING 40. Whoa! Put on the brakes, it's all slipping away. Before you know it, you REACH 50 and your dreams are gone.

But wait!!!
You MAKE it to 60. You didn't think you would!

So you BECOME 21, TURN 30, PUSH 40, REACH 50 and MAKE it to 60.

You've built up so much speed that you HIT 70! After that it's a day-b y-day thing; you HIT Wednesday!

You get into your 80's and every day is a complete cycle; you HIT lunch; you TURN 4:30 ; you REACH bedtime. And it doesn't end there. Into the 90s, you start going backwards; 'I Was JUST 92.'

Then a strange thing happens. If you make it over 100, you become a little kid again. 'I'm 100 and a half!'
May you all make it to a healthy 100 and a half!!

HOW TO STAY YOUNG

1.
Throw out nonessential numbers. This includes age, weight and height. Let the doctors worry about them. That is why you pay 'them.'

2.
Keep only cheerful friends. The grouches pull you d own.

3.
Keep learning. Learn more about the computer, crafts, gardening, whatever. Never let the brain idle. 'An idle mind is the devil's workshop.' And the devil's name is Alzheimer's.

4.
Enjoy the simple things.

5.
Laugh often, long and loud. Laugh until you gasp for breath.

6.
The tears happen. Endure, grieve, and move on. The only person, who is with us our entire life, is ourselves. Be ALIVE while you are alive.

7.
Surround yourself with what you love , whether it's family, pets, keepsakes, music, plants, hobbies, whatever. Your home is your refuge.

8.
Cherish your health: If it is good, preserve it. If it is unstable, improve it. If it is beyond what you can improve, get help.

9.
Don't take guilt trips. Take a trip to the mall, even to the next county; to a foreign country but NOT to where the guilt is.

10.
Tell the people you love that you love them , at every opportunity.

AND ALWAYS REMEMBER
:
Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take,
but by the moments that take our breath away.


And if you don't send this to at least 8 people - who cares? But do share this with someone. We all need to live life to its fullest each day!!


April 15

Free self-help, I wanted to share in these times of need

Free Self-Help to Recover From Some Life-Damaging Problems

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April 14

Singer Uses Stage to Bring Attention to Servicemembers' Sacrifices

Singer Uses Stage to Bring Attention to Servicemembers' Sacrifices
Tue, 14 Apr 2009 13:45:00 -0500

American Forces Press Service




 

Singer Uses Stage to Bring Attention to Servicemembers' Sacrifices

By Kristen Noel                                                                                       PLEASE --- at the bottom check out the Wounded Warrior Diaries
Special to American Forces Press Service

WASHINGTON, April 14, 2009 - A former Marine sergeant turned country-music artist is using his newfound fame to urge Americans to do more to support the men and women returning from the wars in Iraq and Afghanistan.

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Stephen Cochran, former Marine sergeant turned country-music artist, is using his newfound fame to urge Americans to do more to support the men and women returning from the wars in Iraq and Afghanistan. Courtesy photo

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Having toured with major acts, including Toby Keith and Alabama frontman Randy Owen, and landing three of his own songs on the national country music charts, Stephen Cochran says everything he has planned for the next 10 years involves rising to the highest level of music he can, while working to improve the quality of life for severely wounded veterans and those suffering from post-traumatic stress disorder.

"I want to bring attention to that great 1 percent ... it takes to stand up and defend a whole country," he said. "One percent of our population does that, so why can't the other 99 percent of it take care of them?"

Cochran's dedication to the livelihood of combat veterans stems from his own personal story of severe injury while serving in Afghanistan.

"Everything that I can do, I believe, I have to go through before I can know what my mission is – like being injured," said the singer, who was told he'd never walk again in 2004. "I had to be injured to know that our men and women aren't being taken care of properly."


Called to Serve


As the son of a songwriter who grew up in America's "music city" of Nashville, Tenn., Cochran had a country-music career in his sights all his life. He had a bedroom full of instruments as a child – given to him as presents instead of toys – and he made his first radio appearance with his father at age 3, singing the Alabama hit "Dixieland Delight."

"I don't think that there's ever been an aspect of my life that hasn't been surrounded by music," he said, "or that I haven't ever known that's what I always wanted to do."

However, shortly into his junior year at Western Kentucky University, everything changed for Cochran. He had just been named captain of Western Kentucky's lacrosse team and was gearing up for the season when the Sept. 11, 2001, terrorist attacks happened. That night, while watching the television coverage in his fraternity house, he made the unexpected decision to join the military.

"Everything was normal, and then it was like a snow globe," he recalled. "In one day, ... I didn't feel safe anywhere."

Cochran enlisted in the Marine Corps a week and a half later, walking away from his college education, a promissory record deal, and his then-fiancée, who broke their engagement when he announced his decision.

Enlisting wasn't a choice he had to make, Cochran said. "It was just something that I was called to do and was made to do," he explained. "It was ... just a strong voice inside me that [said] I had to do this."

Patriotism always has been driven home hard in his family, Cochran added. His father, both grandfathers, and an uncle served in the military.

"They joined when they needed to, when our country needed them," he said.


Beating the Odds


Cochran, 19 at the time, reported to boot camp on Feb. 2, 2002, and trained for nine and a half months with the Marine Corps before he was deployed to Kuwait with the 2nd Light Armored Reconnaissance Battalion – part of the 1st Marine Expeditionary Force – to prepare for Operation Iraqi Freedom.

Once the unit crossed the threshold into Iraq, it fought to Tikrit and back, completing 111 missions during a year-long deployment. Enemy contact was frequent, Cochran said, but the unit brought every man home.

"That was something we prided ourselves on," he said. "We brought our whole family home."

Confident after Iraq, the unit immediately volunteered to join the 22nd Marine Expeditionary Unit for a special operations push in Afghanistan. The unit deployed just four months after returning from Iraq. The decision to redeploy so soon was "something we would all regret later on," Cochran said.

The unit arrived to find a much more hostile environment in Afghanistan, and firefights with the enemy were a daily occurrence. It was no longer a matter of if the unit would get ambushed, Cochran explained, it was when.

"We started losing guys," he said.

The anticipated ambush happened July 14, 2004, eight months into his deployment. Cochran, serving as a reconnaissance scout, was on a routine security mission 20 miles inside Kandahar when his unit's light armored vehicle struck an antitank mine. The explosion threw Cochran off the back of the vehicle 125 feet, breaking five vertebrae in his lower back.

The medics lost his pulse twice during resuscitation, declaring him dead both times.

Cochran has no memory of the incident. When shown photos from the scene, he said, he recognizes himself, but it doesn't feel like he was actually in the picture.

"That's just a real weird feeling that you really don't know how to deal with," he said.

Cochran woke up a month later in the National Naval Medical Center in Bethesda, Md., and was told that he was paralyzed from the waist down and would most likely never walk again.

To make matters worse, the record label he had a promissory deal with dropped him, not wanting to invest in a paraplegic. The woman he had been engaged to cut all ties with him, and the Marine Corps retired him.

"It was a bad week; it was a bad week," Cochran said. "Everything that I'd worked for in my past, present, [and] future was gone in one week."

However, nine months into his recovery at Bethesda, another option arose.

Doctors at Vanderbilt Medical Center in his hometown of Nashville proposed trying a surgery called a kyphoplasty to mend the broken vertebrae in Cochran's spine. Kyphoplasties usually are reserved for older patients suffering from degenerative discs. However it's possible to use the procedure to restore feeling in the lower body for spinal-injury victims.

Cochran traveled to Vanderbilt for the surgery. Four days after an orthopedic surgeon applied almost 4 pounds of cement to fix the crushed vertebrae in his back, Cochran had the first feeling in his legs.

It was a tingling feeling, like feet falling asleep, Cochran recalled. "It was the best feeling in the world, because it was the first thing that I had felt in nine months," he said.

Six months of intense physical therapy had him walking with a walker, and a year and a half later, he was in a recording studio working on his first album with only a brace to support his back.


Adapt and Overcome


Today, Cochran's dream of becoming a professional country-music artist has come full circle. He signed a record deal with Aria Records and released his self-titled debut album in 2007.

"Two and a half years after they told me I'd never walk, I signed a record deal," he said.

Between tour dates, Cochran has been back in the studio, recording and helping to produce his second album, which comes out later this year. The first single from the new album, "Wal-Mart Flowers," will be released for play on country radio stations across the United States this month.

Cochran said he believes the second album really shows how he's grown into being a country artist, compared to the first album, which was recorded and released quickly after his recovery.

"I feel like [the first album] was a Marine that sings country music," he said, "and I feel like now, on the sophomore album, I'm getting to show a country artist that's a Marine."

Cochran's back injury still causes him pain occasionally, but he said it doesn't stop him from doing everything he did before the incident.

Perhaps of greater everyday impact is the loss of the tip of the ring finger on his left hand – the hand he uses to form chords on the neck of the guitar. For dealing with that obstacle, Cochran lightheartedly cited a Marine Corps saying, "Adapt and overcome." He said it might take him a little longer to learn a new song now, but he'll sit down with the guitar and try playing it different ways until it sounds right.


Changing Up the Attack


Around the same time Cochran signed with Aria Records, a Marine major he had served with called to tell him his options as a retired servicemember. When Cochran informed him that he'd just signed a record deal, his friend immediately changed the subject to his ideas for a group focused on bettering the livelihoods of servicemembers returning from combat, especially those suffering severe injuries and PTSD.

Together, they founded a nonprofit group called the Independence Fund. Their goal, Cochran explained, was to create an organization that covers servicemembers from the time they enlist or are commissioned to "the time that we put you in the ground."

"I'm very proud of where we've taken [the fund]," Cochran said, "from just being two guys' ideas, to now being a full-fledged foundation that's doing a lot of great work."

Last year, the Independence Fund gave away 19 robotic wheelchairs at $30,000 apiece to severely wounded veterans. The wheelchairs use Segway technology to raise users up to a 6-foot, 3 inch height and can climb stairs.

Cochran maintains that these wheelchairs are the equipment he's seen for a paraplegic or quadriplegic.

"I remember one of the worst things when I was in a wheelchair was that I constantly had to look up to everybody," he said. "I went from being this Marine sergeant to the next day that I couldn't look anybody in the eye when I wanted to talk to them."

The Independence Fund recently joined the Coalition to Salute America's Heroes, which hosts a variety of programs to help wounded and disabled veterans live the fullest lives possible – such as reconstructing homes, providing financial aid and building support networks. Cochran sits on the board of this larger organization.

Cochran is focused on finding ways to improve support for servicemembers with PTSD, which he has suffered from himself. "The paranoia [is] the worst," he said. "You think everybody is against you. That's something we need to figure out before the greatest causalities of this war don't come at the hands of our enemy, but the come at the hands of PTSD."

Multiple deployments aren't making the task any easier for today's servicemembers, he noted. "Nothing has ever been asked of our fighting men and women like has been asked of this generation," he said. "It's five, six times they're going overseas."

In addition to his charity work, Cochran has returned to Kuwait to perform for servicemembers preparing for the fight in Iraq – men and women he said he sometimes feels more at home with than his own family. He also is still in touch with the Marines he served with in Afghanistan who made it back.

"I don't believe that I was done fighting when I was taken out of the war," Cochran said, again employing a Marine Corps principle to make his point. "I just had to 'change up the way that I was attacking,'" he said. The way that I attack now is with going out here and trying to get as many benefits [and] organizations working for the men and women that are coming back home. Then, they know that they have one Marine in the United States that's going to do everything every day that he can do to make sure that ... his or her life is a better quality.

"I think that I can win every award in country music," he continued, "and still one of the greatest things that I've ever accomplished in my life was being handed a new eagle, globe and anchor and being told 'Welcome aboard, United States Marine.'"

(This is the seventh installment of the Wounded Warrior Diaries series. Kristen Noel works for the Defense Media Activity's Emerging Media directorate.)

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April 12

We're Wishing you a Blessed Easter

 

We want to wish all of you a blessed Easter.  Thought this was a wonderful message to send at this time of year.  We have an awesome God and what He did for us at his Cross and Resurrection was because He loved us so much.  He is risen!  He has risen indeed!  Alleluia!  <><

 
 
 


Simply beautiful!!!




THE U IN JESUS



Before U were thought of or time had begun,
God stuck U in the name of His Son.

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And each time U pray, you'll see it's true,
You can't spell out JesUs and not include U.

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You're a pretty big part of His wonderful name,
For U, He was born; that's why He came.

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And His great love for U is the reason He died.
It even takes U to spell crUcified.

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Isn't it thrilling and splendidly grand
He rose from the dead, with U in His plan?

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The stones split away, the gold trUmpet blew,
And this word resUrrection is spelled with a U.

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When JesUs left earth at His upward ascension,
He felt there was one thing He just had to mention.

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'Go into the world and tell them it's true
That I love them all - Just like I love U.'

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So many great people are spelled with a U,
Don't they have a right to know JesUs too?

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It all depends now on what U will do,
He'd like them to know,
But it all starts with U.
 

Deanie Wild

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Enjoy family, friends, being Grandma, walks with Hubby, nature, Computer, cooking, baking, listening to a variety of music, some crafts~~A home Engineer, you like that, I do, as it is an important job! Mother to 4 grown kids. Grandma to 10 grandkids and 4 great grandkids. Married to my Best Friend, be 52 yrs. in Sept. 8, 2008.